I've never brought up the fact I have many bald spots from the chemo over four years ago to Chris. I just keep them covered.
I was taking my hair down tonight & in the middle of a pity moment pointed to a spot and said "You know. I still have a lot of bald I have to hide".
Chris said, "yeah. I know. But oh well. I'm bald too". I said it wasn't quite the same because he's man.
His response, always in a type of thankful tone, during down times- "at least you're alive Marna". Love him <3